I know that many of us struggle with this one. I did for a very long time. When you do not recognize your own value it is easy to allow these things to bother us.
Learn to love your own company, to be okay with being by yourself (not alone, but by yourself). Learn that being invited, included or considered does not define your value. Learn that YOU, just as you are, are enough.
I was told years ago, take yourself out to eat. Take yourself to a movie. Go enjoy that art museum by yourself. Don’t let the world and the judgmental people in it stop you from living the life you should have. Value and Cherish yourself.
Now I’ll be honest, it’s a weird feeling to take yourself out to dinner. No one to talk to, you aren’t sure where to rest your eyes, you don’t want to stare at your food, but you don’t want people to think you are staring at them. HOWEVER, once you do it a couple times you learn to use that time to think through some stuff, to reflect, to enjoy the moment, to simply just be present with yourself.
It’s a freeing feeling to be okay with being by yourself. Be You. Be boldly and BeYOUtifully YOU!